"Romance" redirects here. For the social type, see Romantic (Social type).

Romance Sim
Saving a wedding with smooth talk

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Romance is an aspiration in The Sims 2. Romance Sims passionate to have as many romantic possibilities with anyone as possible, without being tied up by lifelong commitment. Romance Sims dare to have many lovers and cheat them without getting caught. They also want to make out and WooHoo with many Sims. If Nightlife is installed, they also want to go on date with their partners.

Though Romance Sims love to love, they don't want to bind a commitment with their lover, whether it's to go steady or get married.

Meter Levels

Level Teen Adult Elder
Platinum Major Heart-throb Don Juan / Femme Fatale Fiery Fossil
Gold Total Babe Love Machine Silver Fox
High Green Hottie Lusty Lover Sexy Senior
Low Green Hormonal Hurricane Hopeless Romantic Old Flame
Low Red Wallflower Cold Fish Dirty Old Man / Dirty Old Woman
Deep Red Lonely Loser Total Turn-Off Burned-out Cinder

Wants & Fears


  • Have very first kiss
  • Meet someone new
  • Go on a date[TS2:NL]
  • Makeout with Sim
  • Classic dance with Sim[TS2:AL]
  • Flirt with Sim
  • Kiss Sim
  • Woohoo with Sim
  • Have very first woohoo[TS2:U]
  • Woohoo in ...
  • Woohoo in... with # of sims
  • Woohoo with # of Sims
  • Makeout with # of Sims
  • Fall in love with Sim
  • Have an affair


  • Get Caught Cheating
  • Get Engaged/Married/Go Steady
  • Have a baby
  • Get Fired
  • Break up
  • Get rejected for a make out
  • Get rejected for WooHoo
  • Get rejected for Public WooHoo

Lifetime Wants

  • Become Celebrity Chef
  • Become Hall of Famer
  • Become Professional Party Guest
  • Have 20 Simultaneous Lovers
  • Woohoo with 20 different Sims
  • Makeout with 20 different Sims
  • Become Rock God[TS2:S]

Aspiration Desperation

Romance Desperation

Romance Sponge Mop Lover

When a Sim reaches aspiration desperation it pulls out a mop with an attached plate that has a face painted on it and dances with it.

Freetime Aspiration Benefits

Level 1 - Massive Attraction
Level 2 - Slower Motive Decay
Level 3 - Local Legend
Level 4 - Smooth Talk


  • Culinary
  • Athletic
  • Slacker
  • Music[TS2:S]

Premade Sims With Aspiration

For a complete list, see Category:Romance Sims.

Tips & Tricks

  • Sims with knowledge aspiration get along pretty badly with romance sims, as they have nothing in common and where a romantic sim might wish for a style of life with a lot of partners and social interactions, intellectual sims prefer to stay alone studying. It's like cold-hot, water-oil. They won't ever get along well.
  • If you want a Romance Sim to marry and not have their aspiration bar fall low, make their secondary aspiration family. You need The Sims 2 FreeTime to get a secondary aspiration.
  • Romance Sims won't have a bad memory of marrying a rich Sim.
  • A relationship between Family Sims and Romance Sims may not always result too well due to their clashing needs. Family Sims want to get engaged and married, while Romance Sims normally fear engagement and marriage; as a result, an engagement/marriage between Romance and Family Sims will often greatly boost a Family Sim's aspiration while severely lowering the Romance Sim's. The Family Sim will want to have children and raise them carefully, and Romance Sims will wish to WooHoo, go on dates and find other lovers all the same time.
  • For these reasons, if you're looking to have a stable family, it's generally considered a poor strategy to have a Romance Sim marry. In order to keep their aspiration score high, they will effectively be required to cheat on their spouse.
  • When a Romance Sim falls in love with another Sim, they may also gain a want to have multiple loves at once.
  • Romance Sims are unique for not wanting to get married, engaged, go steady and have babies. Non-Romance Sims usually want things like this (besides Pleasure, but even they won't fear it).
  • Similar to Pleasure Sims, a handful of Romance Sims actually want marriage. This is extremely unusual, probably the rarest Want a Romance Sim can possibly roll.
  • In rare cases, if someone (even a family type) has many children and is annoyed with them and has a low aspiration bar for two days or more, they will get Romance type wants (i.e. kiss someone, go on a date, flirt etc).
  • If a Sim that has the Romance aspiration is married/joined to someone, and was created to be married/joined, the married/joined memory will be a good memory.
  • A Sim with this asipiration may want to be in love with more than one person at the same time, which implies cheating.
  • Despite fearing having babies, Romance sims will still have good memories from giving birth, and caring for their other wants can lighten the impact of such fears.
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