Forum:Story Progression stole my baby

playing on my friends sims3. made a woman, she had a kid, etc. when the kid had just turned to a toddler i wanted to check on the other families in the neighbourhood because i had story progression turned on, but whilst i was checking the other families i definatly turned story progression OFF so i didnt lose anything. only when i got back the baby was gone... the baby was a ghost baby. i checked the graveyard, all the houses and adoption services, noone seems to have her. i set the toddler lifespan really short hoping to grow her up to a child so i could call her and invite her over then move her back in but where ever she is Luna isnt getting any older. how can i get Luna back?