User blog:Lesya Zirka/Game problems

I am playing the but there are two problems with the family I am playing.

Problem number 1: The traits I choose don't show up properly the oldest daughter is aged up and she has to be edited in CAS to make the traits show up properly.

Problem number 2: One when the husband went to work he didn't return home, he just went missing.

I don't know how either of the problems came around.

Does anyone know how I can solve these problems?